JAVA PHILOSOPHY; WANI NGALAH LUHUR WEKASANE"

World's crisis of love comes from the individual egotism. One's love others but just to positon other as a complement of his own need. It is like the capitalistic system which put others merely as clients or customers. Relationship is established not for the sake of togetherness but for the sake of oneself. Therefore, in the US strategic management, the first think to do is to consider other as a rival to be subdued. Man is divided into I and You, instead of We or Us; or else human is unavoidably divided into "believer" and "unbeliever", "friend and foe", "samaritans" and "terorrist" . Instead of beating others for the sake of victory, javanese philosophy tells us that: If we are brave enough to loose for the sake of others, we will gain our victory later. or in the Javanese terms means: "WANI NGALAH LUHUR WEKASANE". Of course, if it is practiced by both parties in battle, such thing will save a lot of useless casualties.